Share my story | NM Family Law Reform

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Share Your Story

Your experience matters, and you're in control of how much you share. We're using real stories to help New Mexico lawmakers understand why coercive control needs to be named in our state's laws. You can share a few sentences or a full account, stay completely anonymous, or just let us count your experience without any story at all. There's no wrong way to fill this out - and no pressure to finish it in one sitting.

How would you like to participate?

How would you like to participate? Choose whichever feels right. You can change your mind later.

Just count my experience anonymously, no story needed, I just want to be represented in the numbers

Share my story anonymously - no name or identifying details used

Share my story and it's okay to quote me anonymously (still no name)

Share my story and I'm open to being named, if you check with me first

I'd be willing to talk about giving legislative testimony

Other

What did you experience?

Check whatever applies. This helps us show lawmakers the range of what coercive control looks like.

Financial control or restriction

Digital surveillance or tracking

Isolation from friends or family

Litigation abuse (repeated court filings used to control or exhaust you)

Impact on a custody or divorce case

Physical abuse

Intimidation and threads

Other

Your story (optional)

Share as much or as little as you want. Leave it blank if you selected "just count my experience" above.

Want us to follow up? (optional)

Only fill this in if you're comfortable being contacted. We'll never reach out unless you say it's safe to.

First name (or name you'd like us to us)

Email

It is safe to contact me at the info above

Yes

No

I understand I can ask to have my story removed at any time, that filling out this form doesn't create any legal relationship or obligation, and that my information will only be used the way I've chosen above.

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Share Your Story

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What did you experience?

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